How to Resolve Conflict, I don’t remember much of the time I had breathed for the first time, but the only thing I remember is “I WAS MISUNDERSTOOD”. From then till now I have been noticing friends misunderstanding their friends, brother misunderstanding his brother, brother misunderstanding his sister, sister her brother, husband his wife, wife her husband, a teacher his/her students, students misunderstanding their teacher, a colleague his/her colleague, an employer his/her employee, an employee his/her employer, parents their children, children their parents, he misunderstanding him, she misunderstanding him, misunderstanding, misunderstanding, misunderstanding. And now … I HAVE BECOME FED UP OF THIS! Haven’t you?
It’s a very common proverb these days; everything has two sides, a positive and a negative one. That’s true, but I accept it in a slightly different way. I say that everything; act, speech etc. can be perceived in two ways, in a positive way and a negative one.
Considering the fact that everything can be perceived in two ways, I always wonder, WHY IS IT ALWAYS THE NEGATIVE SIDE THAT HAS TO BE PREFERRED? So if your friend does not help you in solving some problems you have in your mathematics, it is because he fears you getting the first position
How Misunderstanding Occur
If your husband doesn’t buy you a slightly expensive lipstick, it is because he doesn’t care about you, he no more loves you. COME ON, STOP IT! Why just don’t you think the other way? So why don’t you think that he/she can have a problem too? And why aren’t you ready to accept the fact that anyone can have problems?
These things may be very much simple and common, but the reality is THEY’RE THE UNNOTICED FACTS! We all have been mix.mderstanding each other, and that has been the cause of so many personal problems, UNSOLVED PROBLEMS.
In our society (or maybe everywhere in the world) the way of approaching towards something has been so wrong that it has turned out too difficult to find people with the positive attitude of solving such issues.
This thing is very important for, in the world, every person depends on the other, they are connected which connects people living together. It breaks the bonds, which connect relatives, and generations. I hate breakups, everyone does so. HOPE SO!
And now a question rises that how can we resolve the Conflict which was created by different situation.
How to Resolve Conflict
different situations create Conflict in a relationship. we must know how to solve it. The only thing that is necessary in a successful relationship is love, trust and understanding.
IF this three things are in relationship, that relationship is strong and it will go further in the future and if this three things are not in relationship it is fail and it will not go further
we should not see who is responsible for the fault or misunderstanding but the one will always bow who has the value of relationship in his or her heart.
So it is very important the care for one that we love more then our lives even more then our soul. we can not let them go only for a small Conflict. Love is the most important thing that mankind needs to live a happy life thus we can not leave the most important thing because of a Conflict.